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Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Power to Live

Power to live
You are much more powerful, creative and effective than you give yourself
credit for being. You are worthy of the best in life because you are able
to give your very best to each day.
Start that fortunate process in motion. Open yourself to the positive
possibilities of this day and work to bring the best of them to reality.

Whatever good, valuable and meaningful things you can imagine, you can
create. Though it requires effort and commitment, you are absolutely
capable of making it happen.

Remind yourself that this moment is not merely happening to you. It is
happening through you.
You can make it happen in a way that brings great richness to your world
and fulfillment to your life. You can choose to be a positive force by
directing your potent energy into those things that truly matter.
Right now, you have great power to do great things. Step forward in truth,
sincerity, and authenticity, and put that power to use.


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Friday, August 19, 2011

Be better

Be better
If your life could use some positive momentum, make some. Make the choice
and take the action that will bring some real, new, positive value to this
day.
You don't have to wait for things to get better. Because you can take it
upon yourself to be better.
It doesn't matter what else might be going on. There is more than enough
goodness within you to make a real difference when you give some of that
goodness to the world around you.
Just one authentically positive action can change the whole dynamic of your
day. Think of how much more effective you'll be with some positive momentum
on your side, then get busy and do something to put it there.
You are never at the mercy of random circumstance. You can transform any
circumstance, any situation, any event by virtue of how you choose to see
it and to live it.
Take this day and live it in the best way you can imagine. Establish some
powerful, positive momentum and let it carry you in the direction of your
greatest dreams.


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Thursday, August 18, 2011

What is easy

What is easy
Easy is overrated. Though easy is nice and convenient, it is not essential.
Many good, valuable and worthwhile things are not easy. Unfortunately,
perfectly acceptable options are too often overlooked simply because they
are not easy.
Life is not always easy. And yet life is very much worth living, and very
much worth the trouble and effort it often requires.
If you only seek the easiest way, you'll miss out on the best way. If you
avoid what is not easy, you'll deny yourself great richness.
When you expect everything to be easy, you'll have to lower your other
expectations. Many of life's greatest treasures are so valuable precisely
because they are so difficult to attain.
Go to the trouble, make the effort, and take on the difficult challenges.
For out there beyond the comfort of what is easy, you can create and
experience the magnificence of what is great.


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Wednesday, August 17, 2011

CHANGE OF FOCUS

Don't waste your time complaining about what brings you down. Instead, get
yourself away from it in whatever way you can.
If you're in a negative pattern, break the pattern by establishing a new,
more meaningful, positive and empowering one. Doing what you've always done
will continue to get you what you've always gotten, and to get a change you
must make a change.
Reach inside and reacquaint yourself with what you truly care about. Your
authentic purpose is far more important than keeping up old habits or
superficial appearances.
This is your life and this is your opportunity to do something positive
about it. You are far more powerful than you've allowed yourself to be.
Decide to use that power in the service of what is most important to you.
Though a Change of Focus will initially be frightening and uncomfortable,
you will soon feel you're right where you belong.
The beautiful possibilities are calling. NOW is your moment to Focus your
life upon, and to allow, what really matters.



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Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Pathway to fulfillment

Pathway to fulfillment

Life is not about just getting by. Life is about reaching ever higher,
building one achievement on top of another, and creating real, meaningful
value in each moment.
A common stone on the ground does a great job of just getting by. You, on
the other hand, are destined for much more spectacular things.
Yes indeed, you will most certainly encounter a whole lot of challenges
when you make the effort to raise your world even a little bit higher. The
good thing is, you are superbly equipped to thrive on those challenges.
If life seems unfulfilling, it's not because of the challenges or
limitations that stand in your way. It's because you refuse to see the
exceptional opportunities that those challenges represent.
This is your precious and unique life, and it is absolutely worth all the
trouble and effort you must go through to make it great. Within you at this
moment are beautiful dreams, and you can begin to live in the direction of
those dreams whenever you choose.
Let go of the false security of just getting by, and get yourself focused
on a purpose that will bring your life gloriously to life. Your very own
pathway to fulfillment is just one quick step away.




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What if They Don't Believe

What if They
Don't Believe?





TODAY'S SCRIPTURE


"What if some did not believe? Shall their unbelief make the faith of God
without effect?"
(Romans 3:3, KJV)


So often, people allow the opinions of others to hold them back and water
down their dreams. We have to realize, there will always be critics and
naysayers in life. One of the most important things you can learn is that
other people don't have to believe in you in order for your dreams to come
to pass. Other people don't set the limits for your life — you do. It's not
what others say about you that affects your life, but what you say and
believe about yourself. In today's verse, the apostle Paul is saying, "It
doesn't matter if other people don't believe. Their unbelief is not going
to keep me from believing in my dreams." When God puts a promise in your
heart, it's not up to other people to bring it to pass, it's up to you! You
don't need everyone to validate you. You have to follow the voice of God
for yourself and allow Him to order your steps.


Today, know that God sees the hidden treasures inside of you. He wants to
bring those treasures out and make your dreams reality. As you get rid of
the old, defeated thoughts and replace them with what God says about you,
you will remove the limits so you can live the abundant life God has in
store for you!





A PRAYER FOR TODAY


Heavenly Father, thank You for another day to see Your goodness in my life.
Help me to see myself the way You see me. Help me to see the plans You have
for me so that I can be empowered by You to fulfill my destiny. I love You
and bless Your name today. In Jesus' Name. Amen



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Thursday, August 11, 2011

DID YOU KNOW

Intimate Partner Violence

The Department of Justice found that women ages 16 - 24 are the most likely
victims of intimate partner violence (US Dept. of Justice, Bureau of Statistics,
October 2001).
As many as 1 in 5 couples in the United States experience at least 1 episode of
partner-to-partner violence.
Women are more likely than men to be repeatedly abused, injured, or die as a
result of partner violence.
Women are more willing to disclose violent episodes than men. Women who are
assaulted are 9 times more likely than men to report it to the police and 5 times
more likely to tell a friend or relative.
35-50% of victims of intimate partner violence are male.
It is estimated that in this country a woman is severely assaulted by her male
partner every 15 seconds, and a man is severely assaulted by his female partner
every 14.6 seconds.
About 8-10% of male-to-female partner violence is reported, while only 1-2% of
female-to-male partner violence is reported.
The majority of victims murdered by their current or former intimate partners are
either estranged, separated, or in the process of leaving the relationship.
Every 9 seconds a woman is assaulted in the United States, usually by her male
partner.
32% of college students report dating violence by a previous partner and 21%
report violence by a current partner. National Center for Victims of Crime, 2006.
61% of female homicide victims were wives or intimate acquaintances of their
killers. NCADV Violence Policy Center Annual Report, 2004.
About 1 in 320 households were affected by intimate partner violence.
Female victims are more likely to be victimized by intimates than male victims.
In 2005, of offenders victimizing females, 18% were described as intimates and
34% as strangers. By contrast, of offenders victimizing males, 3% were described
as intimates and 54% as strangers.

Of females killed with a firearm, almost two-thirds were killed by their
intimate partners. The number of females shot and killed by their husband
or intimate partner was more than three times higher than the total number
murdered by male strangers using all weapons combined in single
victim/single offender incidents in 2002.
The Violence Pol'y Ctr., When Men Murder Women: An Analysis of 2002
Homicide Data: Females Murdered by Males in Single Victim/Single Offender
Incidents, at 7 (2004), available at
http://www.vpc.org/studies/wmmw2004.pdf



Teens

18-24 year-olds comprised only 11.7% of the population in 1998 and 2002, but were the
majority of victims of violence committed by a boyfriend or girlfriend (42%).
Matthew R. Durose et al., U.S. Dep't of Just., NCJ 207846, Bureau of Justice
Statistics, Family Violence Statistics: Including Statistics on Strangers and
Acquaintances, at 11 (2005), available at http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/pub/pdf/fvs.pdf
Approximately one in five female high school students reports being physically and/or
sexually abused by a dating partner.
Jay G. Silverman et al., Dating Violence Against Adolescent Girls and Associated
Substance Use, Unhealthy Weight Control, Sexual Risk Behavior, Pregnancy, and
Suicidality, 286 J. Am. Med. Ass'n 572-579 (2001).
In a study of eighth and ninth graders, 25 percent indicated that they had been victims
of dating violence, including eight percent who disclosed being sexually abused.
Vangie A. Foshee et al., The Safe Date Project: Theoretical Basis, Evaluation Design,
and Selected Baseline Findings, 12 Am. J. of Preventive Med. 39 (1996).
In a survey of 232 high school girls, 17.8% of the participants indicated that they had
been forced to engage in sexual activity against their will by a dating partner.
David R. Jezl, Christian E. Molidor & Tracy L. Wright, Physical, Sexual & Psychological
Abuse in High School Dating Relationships: Prevalence Rates and Self-esteem Issues, 13
Child & Adolescent Soc. Work J. 69 (1996).
Among female students between the ages of 15-20 who reported at least one violent act
during a dating relationship, 24% reported experiencing extremely violent incidents
such as rape or the use of weapons against them.
P.Y. Symons et al., Prevalence and Predictors of Adolescent Dating Violence, 7 J. of
Child & Adolescent Pediatric Nursing 14 (1994).
Girls who reported that they had been sexually or physically abused were more than
twice as likely as non abused girls to report smoking (26% versus 10%), drinking (22%
versus 12%), and using illegal drugs (30% versus 13%). In addition, 32 percent of girls
who had been abused reported bingeing and purging, compared to 12 percent of girls who
had not been abused.
Cathy Schoen et al., The Commonwealth Fund, The Commonwealth Fund Survey of the Health
of Adolescent Girls (1997).
In a study of 724 adolescent mothers between the ages of 12-18, one of every eight
pregnant adolescents reported having been physically assaulted by the father of her
baby during the preceding 12 months. Of these, 40 percent also reported experiencing
violence at the hands of a family member or relative.
Constance M. Wiemann et al., Pregnant Adolescents: Experiences and Behaviors Associated
with Physical Assault by an Intimate Partner, 4 Maternal & Child Health J. 93 (2000).
Physical aggression occurs in 1 in 3 teen dating relationships.
Sarah Avery-Leaf & Michele Cascardi, Dating Violence Education: Prevention and Early
Intervention Strategies, in Preventing Violence in Relationships 82 (Paul A. Schewe
ed., 2002).
Fifty to eighty percent of teens report knowing someone involved in a violent
relationship.
Maura O'Keefe & Laura Trester, Victims of Dating Violence Among High School Students, 4
Violence Against Women 195 (1998). See also Family Violence Prevention Fund, The Facts
on Teenagers and Intimate Partner Violence,
http://www.endabuse.org/resources/facts/Teenagers.pdf (2006); and National Center for
Victims of Crime, Teen Dating Violence Sheet, http://www.ncvc.org/dvrc (2004).




Children







Each year an estimated 3.3 million children are exposed to violence
against their mothers or female caretakers by family members. (American
Psychological Association, Violence and the Family: Report of the APA
Presidential Task Force on Violence and the Family,1996)
Studies show that child abuse occurs in 30 to 60 percent of family
violence cases that involve families with children. (J.L. Edleson, "The
overlap between child maltreatment and woman battering." Violence
Against Women, February, 1999.)
A survey of 6,000 American families found that 50 percent of men who
assault their wives, also abuse their children. (Pagelow, "The
Forgotten Victims: Children of Domestic Violence," 1989)
Research shows that 80 to 90 percent of children living in homes where
there is domestic violence are aware of the violence. (Pagelow,
"Effects of Domestic Violence on Children," Mediation Quarterly, 1990)
A number one predictor of child abuse is woman abuse. (Stark and
Flitcraft, "Women at Risk: A Feminist Perspective on Child Abuse,"
International Journal of Health Services, 1988)
The more severe the abuse of the mother, the worse the child abuse.
(Bowker, Arbitell, and McFerron, "On the Relationship Between Wife
Beating and Child Abuse," Perspectives on Wife Abuse, 1988)
Some 80 percent of child fatilities within the family are attributable
to fathers or father surrogates. (Bergman, Larsen and Mueller,
"Changing Spectrum of Serious Child Abuse," Pediatrics, 1986)
In families where the mother is assaulted by the father, daughters are
at risk of sexual abuse 6.51 times greater than girls in non-abusive
families (Bowker, Arbitell and McFerron, 1988)
A child's exposure to the father abusing the mother is the strongest
risk fact for transmitting violent behavior from one generation to the
next (American Psychological Association, Violence and the Family:
Report of the APA Presidential Task Force on Violence and the
Family,1996)
Male children who witness the abuse of mothers by fathers are more
likely to become men who batter in adulthood than those male children
from homes free of violence (Rosenbaum and O'Leary, "Children: The
Unintended Victims of Marital Violence," American Journal of
Orthopsychiatry, 1981)
Older children are frequently assaulted when they intervene to defend
or protect their mothers. (Hilberman and Munson, "Sixty Battered
Women," Victimology: An International Journal, 1977-78)
In a 36-month study of 146 children, ages 11-17 who came from homes
where there was domestic violence, all sons over the age of 14
attempted to protect their mothers from attacks. Some 62 percent were
injured in the process. (Roy, 1988)


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